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Why You Should Never Apologize to a Narcissist—Especially During Divorce or Custody Disputes
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Why You Should Never Apologize to a Narcissist—Especially During Divorce or Custody Disputes

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Michael "Thunder" Phillips
Dec 21, 2024
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A thought-provoking illustration of a courtroom with a shadowy, manipulative figure sitting smugly at one table, holding a puppet string connected to a document labeled 'Apology.' At the other table, a person sits with a shield labeled 'Boundaries,' surrounded by glowing records and documents symbolizing evidence and protection. The background shows a symbolic scale of justice tilted unfairly, with the shadowy figure's side weighted down by a sack labeled 'Manipulation.' The overall tone is cautionary, emphasizing the power dynamics of manipulation in legal disputes.

Apologizing is a natural part of human relationships—it demonstrates accountability, empathy, and a desire to mend conflicts. But when dealing with a narcissist, apologies take on a completely different meaning. Instead of diffusing tension, they become weapons of manipulation, blame-shifting, and emotional warfare. This is especially dangerous if you’r…

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