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The Pain of Being Dismissed: A Silent Form of Abuse

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Michael "Thunder" Phillips
Feb 13, 2025
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A wide banner image symbolizing the pain of dismissive behavior: a lone figure standing in the center of a shadowy room, surrounded by faint, ghostly outlines of people turning away or fading into the background, symbolizing being ignored and dismissed. The figure is illuminated by a soft, warm light above, symbolizing hope and self-worth, despite the isolation. The atmosphere is somber yet reflective, with muted tones and a gradient transitioning to soft light on the edges to convey a sense of resilience and potential healing. The composition is panoramic, ideal for a banner.

For those of us who have endured a lifetime of shame and belittlement, there’s something equally insidious that often follows: dismissiveness. It’s quieter than outright criticism, but it cuts just as deep. Dismissive behavior is not just an oversight—it’s a form of emotional neglect and abuse. It makes you feel invisible, unworthy, and unimportant.

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