Judicial Injustice in Suburbia: How Judge Bibi Berry and Montgomery County Family Court Became Every Father's Worst Nightmare
Montgomery County, Maryland—the affluent, progressive suburb of Washington, D.C.—likes to boast about its high-ranking schools, diversity, and commitment to justice. But beneath that glossy surface, an increasing number of families—especially fathers—are discovering a darker truth inside the family division of the Montgomery County Circuit Court.
At the center of these complaints stands Judge Bibi Berry, a sitting Circuit Court judge whose courtroom has been described by parents and attorneys alike as a biased, hostile environment—particularly for self-represented fathers. Judge Berry, once hailed as a champion of reform, is now rapidly becoming one of the most criticized judges on Maryland’s family law bench, with allegations of judicial bias, improper conduct, due process violations, and disregard for transparency stacking up like sealed motions in a docket backlog.
Fathers Say: “She Made It Worse Than Boynton”
Numerous Montgomery County parents have spoken out—some publicly, others behind closed doors—about what they describe as a toxic judicial culture inside the Circuit Court. One father, JC Tyler, recounts how Judge Berry presided over his child support hearing and knowingly accepted fraudulent federal paystubs submitted by his ex-wife. His repeated objections fell on deaf ears. Berry denied his request for recusal, showed visible hostility toward him during hearings, and concluded the case without sharing how she calculated support figures. The Maryland Appellate Court would later vacate her judgment. Yet Berry remained on the bench—unrepentant and unaccountable.
Another father who is himself a practicing attorney shared how Berry mocked his attempts to represent himself in a custody matter, and even fined him under claims he is a frivolous and vexatious litigant, when he was only fighting to keep his children in his life. And another father who represented himself in a custody matter, was ultimately forced by Berry to hire counsel just to be able to see his children. And even that time has been minimal at best.
Others describe a courtroom where Berry routinely acts as “co-counsel” for the mother, helping her navigate legal arguments while shutting down testimony from defense witnesses, ignoring disability accommodations, and obstructing emergency relief motions. Even one litigant with multiple judges recused from his case said Berry was “worse than Boynton,” referring to Judge David Boynton, another controversial figure who had to step down due to conflict-of-interest complaints. In this father’s words: “My children are the ones paying the price.”
The Kangaroo Court of Montgomery County
Montgomery County Circuit Court has gained a reputation among litigants as a legal meat grinder—one where due process is a luxury, and the presumption of fairness is dead on arrival. Critics argue that a small inner circle of judges—Berry, Boynton, Maloney, McAuliffe, and Acosta among them—operate with unchecked power and rarely face meaningful accountability. Emergency motions sit in limbo marked “TBA,” while judges recycle rulings designed to punish those who challenge the status quo.
Even the appearance of impartiality has been shattered. Judge Berry has been accused of openly coaching favored parties during hearings, refusing to share financial worksheets in support cases, and retaliating against litigants who request her recusal. Multiple fathers have said they were treated like criminals in her courtroom, even without any history of abuse, neglect, or wrongdoing.
What makes this all the more disturbing is that these men are not absent fathers or fringe agitators—they are lawyers, engineers, community members. They have filed appeals, submitted judicial complaints, and even spoken with the Washington Post. Their voices, however, remain largely ignored by a judicial system that seems more concerned with preserving its reputation than correcting its errors.
A Call for Oversight—And Impeachment?
In the wake of mounting criticism, calls for serious oversight and reform are growing louder. Advocates are urging the Maryland Commission on Judicial Disabilities and state lawmakers to investigate systemic misconduct and demand greater transparency, accountability, and ethical compliance within Montgomery County’s courts.
Some, like JC Tyler, have gone even further. “Judge Berry must be impeached,” he wrote in a public forum, citing not just his own experience but those of other parents who have faced devastating outcomes under her gavel.
Whether impeachment is realistic or not, one thing is clear: the damage being done to families—and especially to children—under this judicial regime cannot be brushed aside as mere courtroom dissatisfaction. The dysfunction in Montgomery County’s family court is not isolated. It’s systemic. And it’s time the public took notice.
Just had a similar judge in Hudson County, N.J. Family Court. She is also black. Apparently, black female judges have an axe to grind against white AND black men. In my case I'm helping a pro se father who is Asian-Indian. The guy is good on his feet but he needs someone to do the paperwork. I just filed a Judicial Misconduct Complaint against this Family Court Judge for this father (he signed it under oath) for due process violations, communicating with counsel in chambers ex parte, threatening both male litigant and his attorney with contempt numerous times to the point that they quit on him, screaming at the lawyers and litigant in the courtroom, threw the father's attorney out of the courtroom for challenging her numerous mistakes and unconstitutional rulings, threw the father out of the courtroom for representing himself and telling the judge she is not only gender biased but racially biased against Asian-Indian men. Finally, I also filed a pro se Emergent Application to the Appellate Division for the father. They didn't rule against this judge, per se, but you knew a phone call was made to this judge because when the father and another attorney he hired walked into the courtroom, she was very congenial and nice for the first time in the case. We also filed the Judicial Misconduct Complaint with the Judicial Board and the Appellate Division at the same time. Apparently, there's a lot of back channel communication going on, as it seems they put the fear of God into this judge.
Things are starting to turn around for this father. He's getting his contempt hearing put off for 30 days, he's being allowed the discovery he requested, and the Judge changed her domestic violence contempt order against this father by dismissing 4 of the 8 complaints against the father (the mother is a serial domestic violence and child abuse filer) because the father had First Amendment Rights to say what he said to the ex, even if the ex didn't like what he said. We cited a New Jersey Supreme Court case that addressed just this point. The remaining complaints were 2 not guilty, 1 Harassment charge did not rise to the level of harassment because of the First Amendment arguments also. Only 1 contempt remains, and we're working on getting that dismissed or downgraded to a petty disorderly offense.
It’s a “win” the appellate court vacated her judgment. Sadly there is often no relief with the appellate court because the judges protect each other regardless of assignment.
Otherwise the abuse in family court would have ended long ago. “Judicial discretion” allows for any outcome.
Thank you for your continued coverage and thankful for those who speak out.
Those who don’t are often threatened, traumatized and fearful of retaliation which are very real consequences faced by thousands of parents who attempt to expose family court abuse.